Friday, November 26, 2010

one day left to live series - 12 months and 28 days

It was a long Monday. We had a scheduled appointment at Shriners hospital for children to discuss with Orthopedics based on suggestion from Sripathi’s physical therapist as he would soon need special equipments to help him sit, leg braces to help him bear weight on his legs and possible a wheelchair.

But first we had to meet with the nurse practitioner who would first read and understand Sripathi’s case. Further they did the x-ray of his spine to make sure it is taken care of before it starts curving or bending like it happens for most hypotonic children.

The Occupational therapist was kind enough to see us on short notice to discuss about Sripathi’s car seat, one that can be used for all types of travel mainly car and flight (to carefully transport him to Houston as needed) Unfortunately the products were extremely pricy and extremely difficult to handle and worst scenario was they were not fit for air travel. So we are just going to investigate further and try to work out without a special needs car seat with just the options available from Britax. We are just waiting for further inputs from therapist.

But apart from the car seat, she provided us with arm holders for Sripathi to learn to weight bear on his arms. She showed us special needs bath chairs. If we were in India I’m pretty sure bathing a special needs child would have been different. But here in an American apartment where I doubt a special needs bath chair for Sripathi may not fit, I’m desperately looking for alternative ways to help support him while bathing.

By the end of the day Sripathi was taken to the prosthetics department to get a cast of his legs. Sometime in January he will have to go back again to get the braces for his legs. We also have further appointments for his wheelchair and other special needs equipment evaluation.

We had left our house at around 9:45 am and returned only at 7:00 pm. We were all tired especially Sripathi.

To further append his list of troubles, Sripathi cannot wean off Lactulose rather we may have to go up on his does because he is not relieved of constipation. We visited the gastroenterologist the previous week and she confirmed that hypotonic children like Sripathi always need help to gets their bowels moving.

And his water therapy is not as successful either. He is not confident about staying in the water. And I’m not the least confident of letting go of the neck ring which will I suppose facilitate him to experiment. And Nancy from water ways has e-mailed me to check on our progress. So I’m thinking of capturing the therapy session on video and send it over to Nancy, maybe she can help suggest what I could do better.

It was thanksgiving, wanted to share this from the book of Ecclesiastes

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, a time to reap that which is planted;

A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

one day left to live series - 12 months and 22 days

Updated video of photographs taken on Sripathi's 1st birthday on the 29th of October 2010, the evening satsang and his Ayushya Homam on the 15th of November 2010.


Friday, November 05, 2010

one day left to live series - 1 year and 7 days

Happy Diwali to your family from ours
Sripathi is a year old now. He started taking whole milk and has almost stopped taking Formula. In the past 10 days he met his hematologist who tested his blood and mentioned that Sripathi's hemo levels are at 13 which is great. He also visited his pediatrician and had his prevnar shot finally. And yes he has been doing fine after the shot. We have postponed his gastroenterologist appointment. And also we are weaning him off the Lactulose. I found that Avocados help with his constipation. So he gets a quarter of the pulp every day. Also the stage three Gerber foods - pears and blueberries also help.

Sripathi had a wonderful birthday celebration with satsang. He wore kurtha and dhoti sent by his paternal grandparents. Of course he received a lot of toys and books from his satsang family. Thanks to Lekshmi ji and Jeevan ji family for send me this wonderful book. This should really help me help Sripathi with the ABM. - Move into life by Anat Baniel.


Sripathi's water therapy is going great. So is his physical and vision. His occupational therapy is on hold for now.

BTW October 31'st is Halloween here in the USA. Aparna had given me her elder daughter Sadhana's Halloween costume for Sripathi. So here he is dressed up as Tigger from Winne the pooh.


We are now trying to get Sripathi to use a sippy cup. I found this product - think baby which I think should work for Sripathi. Let's see.


Monday, November 01, 2010

The Three Questions

This is based on the short story by Leo Tolstoy - The three questions.
The story goes like this.... (Credits - Wikipedia)

A king determines that he will be able to cope with any occurrence only if he has the answers to three critical questions:
  • What is the best time to do each thing?
  • Who are the most important people to work with?
  • What is the most important thing to do at all times?

Many educated men attempted to answer the king's questions, but they all came up with different answers. The king decided that he needed to ask a wise hermit in a nearby village. The hermit would only see common folk, however, so the king disguised himself as a peasant and left his guards behind to see the hermit. The hermit was digging flower beds when the king arrived. The king asked his questions, but the hermit went on digging rather laboriously. The king offered to dig for him for a while. After digging for some time, the king again asked his questions. Before the hermit could answer, a man emerged from the woods. He was bleeding from a terrible stomach wound. The king tended to him, and they stayed the night in the hermit's hut. By the next day the wounded man was doing better, but was incredulous at the help he had received. The man confessed that he knew who the king was, and that the king had executed his brother and seized his property. He had come to kill the king, but the guards wounded him in the stomach. The man pledged allegiance to the king, and he went on his way. The king asked the hermit again for his answers, and the hermit responded that he had just had his questions answered.

  • The most important time is now. The present is the only time over which we have power.
  • The most important person is whoever you are with.
  • The most important thing is to do good to the person you are with.

Here is a person who has answered his three questions.
Narayanan Krishnan personally cooks and feeds 400 mentally ill destitute every single day since 2003 and he is selected as a candidate for the CNN hero of 2010.
Voting is open until Thursday, November 18, 2010 (6 am ET) on http://heroes.cnn.com/vote.aspx.